First, I want to say this is an honest post, and I ask that you be respectful and mindful of my situation. Do no flame, or post ignorant and ridiculous answers.

About a year ago my wife and I were separated. She moved out for a period of time during which we worked out our problems, and she moved back in after 3 months (From end of July to end of October) During that 3 months, she confessed that she slept with 2 separate men, one of which without using protection. That particular individual is a 24 hour coffee drinker, and smoker. I mention this because I’m sure his habits led to his ejaculate to be some very raunchy product. I’m wondering if it could have permanently changed her internal vaginal chemistry? She too was smoking from the end of July until March of this year. She moved back here in October. All of these changes were noticed immediately, when she came back. It’s been nearly 8 months now, and these symptoms have not improved at all, only gotten worse. As soon as she came back, I noticed the following changes in her body:

1. Her vagina has a much stronger, more pungent odor than it used too. It smells bad, like rotten, bacteria laden food. When I mentioned this, she was tested for all ST-D’s and vaginal infections. All came back negative. Her diet has not changed, and she quit her tobacco habit. She does not drink coffee or alcohol, and no prescriptions have been removed, changed, or introduced.

2. At night she snores very loudly, and when not snoring, she wheezes. This can be so loud at times that it will wake me out of a dead sleep.

3. In the morning, her breath smells significantly worse than it did in the past.

4. Her vagina has changed colors, and looks less attractive than it did before. It’s got more wrinkled, and a few other things I haven’t been able to decipher just yet.

I understand these are normal changes for someone to go over in a lifetime, but this happened in only 3 months. I also understand that it’s normal for a vagina to smell, morning breath is bad, and people snore. But I’d never have noticed this if it wasn’t a dramatic change from who she was before. Once again please be respectful. If not for my sake, for hers. Its hard enough for me to deal with the fact that these things happened in the past. Much less to have daily reminders of them.
It’s been nearly a year… Although its hard to deal with, but it’s not affecting me that much. I want to know why this is happening.

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