About a month ago my best friend was diagnosed with the STD after she went to the ER because she was bleeding and had constant “yeast infections that wouldn’t clear up.” Her boyfriend cheated on her and they broke up and having no clue she had the STD she started dating a friend of ours and they had sex and she also told me she had oral sex and she managed to probably get herself and her partner re-infected during the treatment because they failed to use protection or abstain from sexual activity, and she had oral sex with him.

My friend always shares spoons, forks, straws, bottles, bites off my food, etc. Is there a risk of my friends and me getting infected orally? My friend told me there was probably no risk, but I don’t believe that.

How would chlamydia affect me if I got it from my friend? Could it sexually affect me even if I wasn’t sexually active? If I was sexually active could I give my partner chlamydia just by having sex with him or would it have to be oral sex?

A little more than a week ago I started feeling sick I have an ear infection related to swollen tonsils, and it cleared up with an antibiotic but came back worse while I was still taking the antibiotic as instructed. The second time around I got a sore throat and a cough. Could my friend have gotten me sick?

I’ve been to many websites but many are vague about stds in the mouth/throat.

2/2/08-Got drunk and heard rumor of someone being in a room with me. I didnt feel like I had gotten butt-raped on bit in the morning but Im scared alcohol might of covered this.

2/14/08-Bump on my pubes. Popped it with a needle, drained it, and put antibiotic cream on it, returned back to normal but left purple mark
3/2/08-Acne is getting real bad, getting bumps about 1-CM long, red in color, and didnt hurt one bit when you touched them, unless you pushed down really hard.

4/2/08- Started taking antibiotics for acne. Noticed white webby splotches forming on my tonsils.

7/2/08-Armpit hurt. Did in fact feel uncomfortable even without touching it, although nothing stuck out one bit.(I had been trying different deodorants at this time)

9/18/08-Lose my virginity to a “questionable girl.” Yes it was unprotected. She had some purple marks around her thighs but I have those too(I guess stretch marks) so i didnt think much of it.

10/20/08- Another boil/pimple on pubes same as(2/14/08) did same procedure. Also had 3 other bumps though. 1, was bright red, and wasnt painful located at the base of my penis. The other two were in the middle, but one looked like a small scab and the other was kind of a circle.

Today-I notice a bump on my inside thigh, next to my scrotum. The size of a pimple althogh a little longer than wider. Does not hurt one bit unless you really push down on it.

Am I just paranoid, or do I have something?